Diagnosis often lands with too much information, too much urgency, and no obvious sequence.
This checklist helps you focus on the actions that matter first so important Ontario-specific
steps do not disappear under stress.
Organize the first month by timing, not bureaucracy.
Keep school, registration, documents, and support calls moving together.
Use the notes areas for names, deadlines, and what still needs follow-up.
Register with AccessOAP as soon as you can. Your position is tied to registration timing, so
do not wait until the rest of the system makes sense.
AccessOAP: 1-833-425-2445Have diagnosis and health card details nearby
Week 1
Immediate registration and document control
Call AccessOAP and complete the first registration stepWrite down the exact date and the name of the person you spoke with.
Request or confirm written diagnosis recordsKeep digital and printed copies ready for school, benefits, and provider intake.
Start one autism paperwork folderDiagnosis, notes, referral letters, receipts, school emails, and access details all go in one place.
Week 2
School planning and family coordination
Contact the school and request a meetingAsk how the school wants to receive the diagnosis and what the next support steps are.
Write down your child’s biggest current barriersTransitions, communication, safety, sensory load, or participation issues can guide the first accommodations ask.
Decide how caregivers will share updatesOne shared notes file or folder reduces missed details and duplicated effort.
Week 3
Funding, records, and practical support
Start tracking autism-related expensesTherapy, mileage, equipment, and childcare costs are easier to use later if you start now.
Review tax and benefits optionsMake a note to explore the Disability Tax Credit and any benefits or employer supports available to you.
Identify one or two immediate support resourcesThat could be a parent group, clinician consult, school contact, or respite path worth following up.
Week 4
Steady the system you are building
Review what is done versus what is still pendingHighlight anything that needs a follow-up date, callback, or additional document.
Prepare your next month prioritiesSchool, provider selection, funding questions, and receipts should now be easier to sequence.
Save a clean copy of your notesA PDF snapshot at the end of month one gives you a stable baseline for what happens next.
Keep Handy
Core details to capture as you go
Quick Contacts
Write down the names and numbers now
AccessOAP1-833-425-2445
School leadTeacher, principal, vice-principal, or student support contact.
Diagnosing clinicianKeep contact details for follow-up paperwork or clarifications.
Notes
Use this space for follow-up dates, names, and anything easy to forget
This works best as a living document. Bring it to calls and meetings so new information lands in the same place.