In brief

Quick Summary

  • Keep both physical and digital records, organized by date and school year.
  • After every school meeting, send a follow-up email summarizing what was discussed, this creates a written record of verbal commitments.
  • Track every incident with date, time, people present, and what happened.
  • Keep every version of your child's IEP, including drafts, with dates.

Documentation Steps for Parents

  1. Create a dedicated folder

    Set up both a physical binder and a digital folder, organized by date and school year. Having both ensures you do not lose records if one format is unavailable.

  2. Save all written communications

    Keep every email, letter, or written note from the school. Screenshot email threads and save to your folder with the date in the filename. Do not rely on your email inbox alone.

  3. Request meeting minutes in writing

    After every school meeting, send a brief email to the teacher or principal summarizing what was discussed and any commitments made. This creates a documented record of verbal conversations.

  4. Track incidents

    For every incident involving your child, a physical intervention, an early dismissal, a refusal of accommodation, record the date, time, what happened, who was present, and your child's reported experience.

  5. Keep copies of all IEPs

    Request a copy of every IEP version, including drafts shown at meetings. Date-stamp each copy. Differences between IEP versions can be important evidence if accommodations were quietly removed.

Written-request templates

Copy or download these templates, fill in the brackets, and send. A written request is far harder for a school to dispute later than a verbal one.

Meeting follow-up email

Send within 24 hours of any school meeting to put verbal commitments in writing.

Subject: Follow-up: [MEETING TOPIC] meeting on [DATE]

Hi [TEACHER/PRINCIPAL NAME],

Thank you for meeting with me on [DATE] to discuss [CHILD'S NAME]'s [MEETING TOPIC].

For my records, here is my understanding of what was discussed and agreed to:

1. [ITEM DISCUSSED OR COMMITMENT MADE]
2. [ITEM DISCUSSED OR COMMITMENT MADE]
3. [NEXT STEPS AND WHO IS RESPONSIBLE]

Please let me know if I have missed or misunderstood anything.

Thank you,
[YOUR NAME]

Written request for school records

Request copies of every IEP version, including drafts, and other school-held records.

Subject: Request for copies of [CHILD'S NAME]'s school records

Hi [PRINCIPAL/SPECIAL EDUCATION CONTACT NAME],

I am requesting copies of the following records for [CHILD'S NAME], date of birth [DOB]:

- Every version of [CHILD'S NAME]'s Individual Education Plan (IEP), including drafts shown at meetings, with dates
- Minutes or notes from any meetings held about [CHILD'S NAME] in the [SCHOOL YEAR] school year
- Any incident reports, safety plans, or behaviour records on file
- [OTHER RECORDS, IF APPLICABLE]

Please advise how these records will be provided and by what date.

Thank you,
[YOUR NAME]
[CONTACT INFORMATION]

Incident log entry

Fill in immediately after any incident so details are fresh and dated.

INCIDENT LOG ENTRY

Child's name: [CHILD'S NAME]
Date of incident: [DATE]
Time of incident: [TIME]
Location: [CLASSROOM / SCHOOLYARD / OTHER]

What happened (facts only, no interpretation):
[DESCRIBE WHAT HAPPENED]

Who was present:
[STAFF, STUDENTS, OR OTHERS PRESENT]

What my child reported afterward:
[CHILD'S OWN WORDS, IF AVAILABLE]

Was the school contacted? By whom, and when:
[DETAILS]

Follow-up requested:
[WHAT YOU ASKED THE SCHOOL TO DO]

Logged by: [YOUR NAME]
Date logged: [DATE]

What the official records cover

Official sources for school records, access requests, and meeting recordings
ReferenceWhat it coversSource
Ontario Student Record (OSR) Guideline, 2000Sets out what school boards must keep in a student's official record and a parent's right to access it.Ontario Ministry of Education
Municipal Freedom of Information and Protection of Privacy ActGoverns a parent's right to request records, including meeting notes and IEP drafts, held by an Ontario school board.Government of Ontario
Criminal Code, R.S.C. 1985, c. C-46, s. 184Section 184 addresses interception of private communications.Government of Canada

Recordkeeping: Common Questions

Keep all school records until your child turns 25 or until all advocacy, appeals, and legal proceedings are fully resolved, whichever is later. Records that seem minor now can become important evidence in future proceedings.

Canada's Criminal Code (s. 184) generally lets you record a conversation you are part of. Your school board may still have a policy on recording meetings. Ask before you record, and get legal advice first.

Put your request in writing

A dated written request is what you can point to later. The School Support Navigator builds one for your situation.

Legal authority for this page

Citable facts from this page(2)

Can my child get an IEP without an autism diagnosis?

You do NOT need a formal medical diagnosis to get an IEP (Individual Education Plan) in Ontario schools. Write to your principal requesting an IPRC meeting, state you have a 'medical referral in progress,' and focus on identifying your child's needs rather than diagnostic labels.

Source: Ontario Education Act

What rights do autistic students have in Ontario schools?

In Ontario, students with autism have the right to an Individual Education Plan (IEP) and reasonable accommodations without a formal diagnosis, based on need. Parents can request an IPRC meeting to identify their child as 'exceptional', guaranteeing specific rights to support services.

Source: Ontario Education Act · Open source record

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Facts1
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Under the Ontario Education Act, every student with special needs is entitled to an Individual Education Plan (IEP) and access to an Identification, Placement and Review Committee (IPRC)

Primary sourceGovernment of Ontario (2024)Verified 2024-01-01
Last system verification: 2026-08-10. Next scheduled update: 2026-11-05.

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