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Guide

How to Communicate an Autism Diagnosis to Your Child's School in Ontario

Sharing your child's autism diagnosis with their school is an important step toward getting the right supports in place. You control what information to share and when. This guide helps you prepare for the conversation, present documentation effectively, and ensure the school takes appropriate next steps under the Education Act.

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How to Communicate an Autism Diagnosis to Your Child's School in Ontario, Quick Summary

  • Sharing your child's autism diagnosis with their school is an important step toward getting the right supports in place.
  • Review the Diagnosis Report Before Sharing
  • Request a Meeting with the Principal and SERT
  • Present the Diagnosis Documentation
  • Estimated time: 1-2 weeks · Difficulty: beginner
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  1. Review the Diagnosis Report Before Sharing
  2. Request a Meeting with the Principal and SERT
  3. Present the Diagnosis Documentation
  4. Discuss Specific Accommodations Needed
  5. Request IEP Development
  6. Follow Up in Writing
Review the Diagnosis Report Before SharingRequest a Meeting with the Principal and SERTPresent the Diagnosis DocumentationDiscuss Specific Accommodations NeededRequest IEP DevelopmentFollow Up in Writing

Review the Diagnosis Report Before Sharing

Read through the full diagnosis report so you understand every section. Note the recommendations that are relevant to school settings. Highlight specific accommodations the clinician has suggested, as these will guide your conversation with the school.

Request a Meeting with the Principal and SERT

Email the school principal to request a meeting. Ask that the Special Education Resource Teacher (SERT) attend. A written request creates a record and signals that this is a formal discussion. Suggest two or three possible meeting times.

Present the Diagnosis Documentation

Bring copies of the diagnosis report for the school to keep on file. Walk the team through the key findings and recommendations. Explain your child's strengths as well as their challenges so the school has a balanced understanding.

Discuss Specific Accommodations Needed

Based on the clinician's recommendations, request specific accommodations. Examples include preferential seating, sensory breaks, extended test time, or access to assistive technology. Be specific about what your child needs rather than making general requests.

Request IEP Development

Ask the school to begin developing an Individual Education Plan (IEP). The IEP formalizes accommodations and sets measurable goals. Under the Education Act, the school must develop an IEP within 30 school days of a student being identified as exceptional.

Follow Up in Writing

After the meeting, send an email summarizing what was discussed and agreed upon. Include a list of the accommodations requested, the timeline for the IEP, and the name of the person responsible for next steps. This written record is essential if you need to escalate later.

Evidence

Evidence and sources

1

Ontario Ministry of Education

Individual Education Plan standards and resource guide (ontario.ca/education)

2

Ontario Human Rights Commission

Guidelines on accessible education for students with disabilities (ohrc.on.ca)

Frequently asked questions

1

Am I legally required to tell the school about my child's diagnosis?

No. Sharing a diagnosis is voluntary. You can share functional needs without giving the full report. Schools can accommodate disability-related needs even when you share only the information needed to plan support.

2

Who at the school will have access to my child's diagnosis?

The diagnosis information is part of your child's Ontario Student Record (OSR). Access is limited to educators and administrators directly involved in your child's education. You can ask the school to specify who will see the documentation.

3

What if the school dismisses my child's diagnosis?

If the school does not take the diagnosis seriously, put your concerns in writing to the principal. Reference the Education Act and the duty to accommodate under the Ontario Human Rights Code. Escalate to the school board's special education coordinator if needed.

Related pages

How to Request School Accommodations for Your Autistic Child in Ontario

Beginner · 2-4 weeks

How to Organize an IEP Meeting for Your Autistic Child in Ontario

Intermediate · 1-2 weeks preparation

How to Request an Identification, Placement, and Review Committee (IPRC) in Ontario

Intermediate · 2-4 months

Verified References & Sources

Updated: Mar 2026

Government Reports & Data

  • [2023]
    Exclusion of Students With Disabilities — 2023 SurveyVerified FAO Data
    Community Living Ontario • Report • 2023-10-01
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  • [2024]
    Inclusion Without Proper Support Is AbandonmentVerified FAO Data
    Elementary Teachers' Federation of Ontario • Report • 2024-06-01
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  • [2020]
    Autism ServicesVerified FAO Data
    Financial Accountability Office of Ontario (FAO) • Report • 2020-07-21
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  • [2024]
    Ministry of Children, Community and Social Services: Spending Plan ReviewVerified FAO Data
    Financial Accountability Office of Ontario (FAO) • Report • 2024-06-05
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  • [2026]
    Ontario Autism Program figures as of May 13, 2026 (MCCSS, released under Freedom of Information to the Ontario Autism Coalition; published in the OAC "OAP At A Glance" update, July 2026)Verified FAO Data
    Ministry of Children, Community and Social Services (Ontario), obtained by the Ontario Autism Coalition • Report • 2026-05-13
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How many children are on the Ontario autism waitlist in 2026?

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As of May 13, 2026, 91,974 children are registered with the Ontario Autism Program. However, only 20,711 (22.5%) have an active Core Funding Agreement. This represents approximately 290% growth in registrations since 2019, with 71,263 children still waiting for essential funding.

Source: MCCSS FOI via OAC · Mar 2026, FAO Report 2024 · Verify Link

How long do families wait for Ontario autism services?

Verified

Ontario autism wait times for core clinical services now exceed 5+ years (2026). Most families currently receiving invitations registered in 2020 or earlier. This delay far exceeds the sensitive early intervention window recommended by developmental specialists.

Source: MCCSS FOI via OAC · Mar 2026, FAO Report 2024 · Verify Link

Is the Ontario Autism Program underfunded?

Verified

Yes. The Financial Accountability Office (FAO) determined that $1.35 billion annually is needed to serve all registered children at 2018-19 service levels. The 2026-27 Ontario Budget allocated $965 million, leaving an estimated $385M+ annual shortfall. This gap is the primary driver of the perpetual 91,974+ child waitlist.

Source: Financial Accountability Office of Ontario [FAO] · Verify Link

About This Article

Written by Spencer Carroll

Founder & Autism Advocate

Parent of autistic child navigating OAP system