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Your child is being kept out of school

What this means

When a school keeps your child out — refusing entry, sending them home early, or asking you to keep them home — that may be an "exclusion." The Education Act (s. 265(1)(m)) lets a principal refuse to admit someone whose presence they judge harmful to other pupils' well-being, and says that decision is "subject to an appeal to the board." An exclusion is not a suspension: suspensions follow their own process with set appeal rules. Your first job is to get the school's decision, reasons, and return plan in writing. Informal "just keep them home for now" arrangements are still time out of school, and they count.

What to do next

  1. 1

    Get the decision in writing

    Ask the school to confirm in writing what the decision is, under what authority (exclusion? suspension? something informal?), and why.

  2. 2

    Start counting days

    Record every full or partial day your child is out of school, starting today. Dates are the strongest evidence in exclusion situations.

  3. 3

    Ask for the return plan

    Request the specific conditions for return, who is responsible for each step, and the date the school expects your child back full-time.

  4. 4

    Ask for the board policy and appeal route

    The Act says an exclusion is subject to an appeal to the board but sets no process — ask the board, in writing, for its exclusion policy and how to appeal.

  5. 5

    Send the exclusion letter

    The generated letter below asks all of these questions at once and puts the school on written notice.

What to ask — say it or paste it
I need to understand exactly what is happening. Is my child being excluded under section 265(1)(m) of the Education Act, suspended, or is this an informal arrangement? Can you put the decision, the reasons, the expected duration, and the plan for returning to full-time school in writing? What is the board's process for appealing this decision? How will my child receive education while out of school? Please reply in writing.

What to record

  • Every day (and partial day) your child is out of school, with dates
  • Who told you to keep your child home, when, and in what words
  • The written exclusion or suspension notice, if any was given
  • Work or schooling offered (or not offered) while your child is out
  • Each written request you send and the date of any response
Start your incident log

The letter to send

Answer four short questions and the Navigator generates this topic's letter with your details filled in, your incident chronology attached, and every legal reference cited — in Plain or Firm tone.

Build my plan and letters

If it doesn't resolve

Start with the principal in writing; escalate fast — days out of school accumulate.

See the full escalation ladder

What not to rely on

"It's not an exclusion, we're just asking you to pick them up early."
Repeated early pickups and "voluntary" stay-homes reduce your child's schooling either way. Record them all and ask the school to state, in writing, what the arrangement is and under what authority.
"There's nothing to appeal."
The Education Act says a refusal to admit under s. 265(1)(m) is "subject to an appeal to the board." The Act doesn't set out the process — the board must tell you its procedure.
"We'll sort it out when things calm down."
Verbal reassurances have no date and no owner. Ask for the return plan in writing, with dates.

Go deeper

  • Deep guide: school exclusions in Ontario
  • Your rights when a school excludes an autistic child
  • Investigation: what exclusion looks like in practice

Common questions

No. A suspension follows Part XIII of the Education Act, with a formal notice and a set appeal process. An exclusion under s. 265(1)(m) is a principal refusing to admit someone they judge detrimental to other pupils' well-being — the Act says it is "subject to an appeal to the board" but sets out no process, so the process comes from board policy.

The Education Act states the principal's decision under s. 265(1)(m) is "subject to an appeal to the board." Because the Act sets no procedure or deadline for that appeal, ask your board in writing for its exclusion policy and its appeal steps. Community legal clinics and ARCH Disability Law Centre can help.

The school may believe that, but your child still has a right to equal treatment in education under the Human Rights Code, and the board has a duty to accommodate disability to the point of undue hardship. Ask, in writing, what accommodations were tried before exclusion and what supports would allow a safe return.

Ask, in writing, how your child will receive education while out of school. Put the question and the school's answer in your records — a long exclusion with no educational provision is a serious gap worth documenting.

This is an independent advocacy resource providing publicly available information. It does not represent any government body, professional organization, or service provider.

Primary sources

SOURCE

Ontario Education Act — Special Education Requirements (IPRC, IEP)
Government SourceTier 1

Government of Ontario • 2024-01-01

SOURCE

Human Rights Code, R.S.O. 1990, c. H.19
Government SourceTier 1

e-Laws • 1990-01-01

SOURCE

Policy on Accessible Education for Students with Disabilities
Government SourceTier 1

Ontario Human Rights Commission • 2018-03-01

SOURCE

Special Report: Special Education Needs
Government SourceTier 1

Government of Ontario • 2026-05-12

Last updated: 2026-07-04

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Under the Ontario Education Act, every student with special needs is entitled to an Individual Education Plan (IEP) and access to an Identification, Placement and Review Committee (IPRC)

Gov / Peer-ReviewedGovernment of Ontario (2024)Verified: 2024-01-01

89,799, children are registered in the Ontario Autism Program

SecondaryCBC FOI Jan 2026Verified: 2026-06-13

1 in 50, According to the 2019 Canadian Health Survey on Children and Youth, about children and youth aged 1 to 17 in Canada had an autism diagnosis

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23%, Only 20,633 children have active funding agreements — less than one in four

SecondaryCBC FOI Jan 2026Verified: 2026-06-13

WHO recommends accessible, community-based early interventions for children with autism — timely evidence-based psychosocial interventions improve communication and social engagement

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