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Get everything in writing

Plain-language school guidance, the record to keep, and the next step available to your family.

  1. 1Understand what's happening
  2. 2Document it
  3. 3Send the letter

What this means

Whatever your school problem is, one habit helps: put it in writing. Verbal promises have no date, owner, or appeal route. Dated records are often useful when you escalate to a superintendent, Ombudsman, or tribunal. Use three steps. Summarize the conversation. Send it by email. Ask the school to correct anything that differs from its understanding. Log incidents the day they happen. Save everything, dated, in one place.

What to do next

  1. 1

    Start the incident log today

    Use the log on this site (it stays on your device) or any dated notebook. Consistency beats perfection.

  2. 2

    Confirm your last conversation

    Send the written-confirmation letter for the most recent verbal conversation about your child — today, while you remember it.

  3. 3

    Ask for responses in writing

    End every request with: "Please reply in writing." It sets the norm.

  4. 4

    One folder, everything dated

    Email folder or binder — one place, chronological, with dates on everything.

What to ask — say it or paste it
Thank you for the conversation. I will send a short email with my understanding of what we discussed. If anything differs from your understanding, please reply in writing within five business days. Going forward, please confirm decisions about my child in writing.

What to record

  • Every conversation about your child: date, who, what was said — confirmed by email
  • Every incident, the day it happens
  • Every document the school gives you (and the date you got it)
  • Every non-response: the follow-ups you sent and the silence that followed
Start your incident log

This topic at a glance

Escalation starts at
School Principal
Letters available
2
Primary sources cited
5
Verified
2026-07-04

The letter to send

Answer four short questions and the Navigator generates this topic's letter with your details filled in, your incident chronology attached, and every legal reference cited — in Plain or Firm tone.

Build my plan and letters

If it doesn't resolve

This habit is the foundation for every rung of the ladder — start here whatever the problem.

See the full escalation ladder

What not to rely on

"They'll remember what they promised."
People leave, memories differ. The written record is what remains.
"Asking for things in writing will make me the difficult parent."
The Ontario Human Rights Commission describes accommodation as a documented, shared process. Written confirmation is normal professional practice — and you can be warm about it.

Go deeper

  • Deep guide: recordkeeping for school advocacy
  • The school journey map

Common questions

Dated records are often useful in superintendent complaints, Ombudsman Ontario matters, and tribunals. They show what was said, promised, and not done. They turn a memory dispute into a chronology someone can review.

You can create your own record. Send a short email with your understanding of the conversation. Ask the school to correct anything in writing within five business days. If no correction comes, your email remains a dated record of your understanding. Silence does not prove the school agreed with every detail.

One place, chronological: an email folder plus a binder for paper works for most families. This site's incident log stays on your own device and can print a dated chronology when you need one.

This is an independent advocacy resource providing publicly available information. It does not represent any government body, professional organization, or service provider.

Primary sources

SOURCE

Policy on Accessible Education for Students with Disabilities
Government SourceTier 1

Ontario Human Rights Commission • 2018-03-01

SOURCE

Ontario Education Act — Special Education Requirements (IPRC, IEP)
Government SourceTier 1

Government of Ontario • 2024-01-01

SOURCE

Ombudsman Ontario — School Boards (jurisdiction since September 1, 2015)
Government SourceTier 1

Ombudsman Ontario • 2015-09-01

SOURCE

Human Rights Tribunal of Ontario — Application and Hearing Process
Government SourceTier 1

Tribunals Ontario • 2026-07-04

SOURCE

Ontario Special Education Tribunal (OSET) — Tribunals Ontario
Government SourceTier 1

Tribunals Ontario • 2026-07-04

Last updated: 2026-07-04

Evidence on this page

The source chain stays visible.

Key claims are paired with their source, evidence tier, and verification date so readers can inspect the public record directly.

Facts5
Sources8

Under the Ontario Education Act, every student with special needs is entitled to an Individual Education Plan (IEP) and access to an Identification, Placement and Review Committee (IPRC)

Government / peer-reviewedGovernment of Ontario (2024)Verified 2024-01-01

91,974

children are registered in the Ontario Autism Program

Government / peer-reviewedMCCSS FOI via OAC · May 2026Verified 2026-08-10

1 in 50

According to the 2019 Canadian Health Survey on Children and Youth, about 1 in 50 children and youth aged 1 to 17 in Canada had an autism diagnosis

Government / peer-reviewedPublic Health Agency of Canada (2024)Verified 2024-03-26

22.5%

Only 20,711 children have active funding agreements (22.5%), less than one in four

Government / peer-reviewedMCCSS FOI via OAC · May 2026Verified 2026-08-10

WHO recommends accessible, community-based early interventions for children with autism. Timely evidence-based psychosocial interventions improve communication and social engagement

Government / peer-reviewedWorld Health Organization (2023)Verified 2023-11-15
Last system verification: 2026-08-10. Next scheduled update: 2026-11-05.
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