91,974
children are registered in the Ontario Autism Program
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A power of attorney lets your autistic adult child choose who makes property and personal-care decisions if they cannot. Under Ontario's Substitute Decisions Act, 1992 it is the less restrictive alternative to guardianship — but it must be created while your child has legal capacity, ideally before or soon after age 18.
Property · Personal care
Required to grant a POA
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A power of attorney (POA) is a legal document in which one adult authorizes another person — an "attorney" — to make decisions on their behalf. In Ontario, the framework for property and personal-care decision-making is the Substitute Decisions Act, 1992. Despite the title, an "attorney" under a POA does not have to be a lawyer: it is whoever your child chooses, such as a parent or sibling.
Ontario recognizes two main kinds relevant to autism families:
Fail-closed notice. Legal rights, deadlines, and program rules change. This page explains the general Ontario framework as this site has published it; confirm the current rule with the relevant Ontario authority or a qualified legal professional before acting.
At 18, a young person in Ontario is presumed capable of making their own decisions unless a formal arrangement — a power of attorney, supported decision-making, or, in some cases, guardianship — is in place. Many autistic adults have the capacity to grant a POA: the test is whether they understand what a POA is and what it does, not whether they have a diagnosis.
A lawyer can assess capacity as part of the POA creation process. If capacity is unclear, ask about supported decision-making first: Ontario law favours the least restrictive option, and a person may be able to make decisions with support rather than having decisions taken over entirely.
The timing point matters most: create the POA while capacity is clear. If no POA exists and an adult is later found incapable, guardianship may require a court application to the Ontario Superior Court of Justice — with capacity assessments, a management plan, financial disclosure, and notice to the adult and others.
Families often arrive at this question holding three tools that sound alike. They solve different problems:
Talk with your young adult about decision-making support before their 18th birthday — what they want help with, and from whom.
Get independent legal advice from an Ontario lawyer who works with disability and capacity issues. These are significant legal steps.
If capacity allows, have the lawyer prepare a POA for property and a POA for personal care, reflecting your child’s own instructions.
Pair the POA with the rest of the plan: a Henson trust or similar arrangement for inheritance, an RDSP (a legal representative can open and manage it if the adult cannot enter into the contract), and a record of major decisions.
Build in safeguards: keep records, avoid conflicts of interest, protect privacy, and revisit the arrangements as circumstances change.
A POA is one pillar. See how it fits with estate planning, benefits, and adult services.
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91,974
children are registered in the Ontario Autism Program
US$2.4M
Lifetime support costs for autism with co-occurring intellectual disability can reach US$2.4 million per person (Buescher et al.)
1 in 50
According to the 2019 Canadian Health Survey on Children and Youth, about 1 in 50 children and youth aged 1 to 17 in Canada had an autism diagnosis